Brand Building: Living The Whole Picture with Jama Pantel

Why You Don’t Need to Be Perfect to Show Up

Jama Season 1 Episode 20

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In this episode of Living the Whole Picture, Jama Pantel shares a heartfelt reminder: perfectionism isn’t real—and waiting to feel “perfect” only keeps you stuck. If life has been heavy, messy, or just overwhelming lately, this conversation will give you permission to show up as you are.

No perfect lighting. No perfect energy. Just real connection. Because that’s what people are really looking for.

00:00 – Opening Reminder: Perfection Isn’t the Standard

Why we keep waiting for “perfect” moments that don’t exist—and how real life matters more.

00:46 – Life Update: Dealing with Health and Burnout

Jama shares her own season of slowing down and showing up imperfectly.

01:23 – How We Were Taught to Hide Struggles

Growing up with the mindset to “push through” and how that can hurt more than help.

02:18 – The Truth About Perfectionism

Why perfectionism is a myth and how it steals your ability to connect.

03:09 – Final Encouragement: Show Up Anyway

Why sharing your in-between moments creates stronger bonds with your audience.


Key Takeaways:

  • You don’t need perfect conditions to be valuable.
  • Perfectionism is a myth that keeps you from connecting authentically.
  • Showing up during hard seasons builds real trust and loyalty.
  • Your audience is looking for you, not a polished version of you.
  • Consistency doesn’t mean perfection—it means presence.

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Jama Pantel:

Perfection isn't the standard, real life is, so why do we keep waiting until we feel perfect to show up? Hey y'all, welcome back to Living the Whole Picture, the podcast for ambitious women ready to elevate their visibility, build authentic confidence and become the face of their brand. I'm your host, Jama Pantel, a luxury portrait photographer, author, educator, influencer and dream chaser, here to help you master your brand presence and show up authentically with confidence. Each week we'll dive into topics to help you shine in business and in life, so you can stop hesitating and start showing up like the leader you were meant to be. If you've ever struggled with confidence on camera or hesitated to put yourself out there, this podcast is for you. Let's get started on living the whole picture together.

Jama Pantel:

Hey y'all, it's Jama, your podcast bestie again, and if you've been following along lately, you know I've just been winging it the last couple of weeks. Truthfully, I've been dealing with some health stuff. Nothing life-threatening, I don't think, but real enough that it slowed me way down. Real enough that I've had to take a step back and ask myself why do I feel like I have to keep showing up perfectly when I'm not okay? Because I haven't been okay? I've been feeling really down lately, and I know I'm not the only one who does this. So here I am, unscripted and winging it again, just to show up for you guys.

Jama Pantel:

We've often been taught that showing up means looking polished and being put together and smiling through it all. And if you were raised like I was, that's just what you did. You pick yourself up by your bootstraps. I'm a Texan, after all and if we can't do that, we shouldn't show up at all. Right. But the truth is, perfectionism doesn't even exist. It really is a made-up standard that we keep trying to hit, but in honesty, we're never going to hit it because it just isn't a thing, even when life is doing its life thing, whether that's an illness, stress, grief or just plain burnout. I have done this so much in my business, where I just push through, push through, push through, and if you know anything about me, you know I've pushed through to where I had shingles and had to stop everything and shut down. I've pushed through again and had to stop everything when another parent was going through illness, and I'm tired of pushing through sometimes.

Jama Pantel:

So this is your reminder, and it's mine too, you don't have to wait until things are perfect to show up. You're allowed to show up in the middle of it. You're allowed to let people see the in-between moments, the when you don't have high energy or you're not perfectly polished because that is what I have been the last month or so Because that's where the real connection happens. Your people aren't looking for perfection, they're looking for you, the human behind the business, the heart behind the brand, the woman who's still showing up, even if it's just a quiet voice, with a little bit of honesty. So if you've been going through something too big or small, and you've been feeling that pressure to present a version of yourself that's just false or feels false, just know you're not alone, you're not behind and you're definitely not doing it wrong.

Jama Pantel:

This was a short one, but again, it's from the heart. So thanks for letting me show up as I am today and if this resonated with you, feel free to share or pass along. Thanks y'all, until next time. Thank you so much for tuning in to Living the Whole Picture. If this episode resonated with you, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave me a review and share it with another high-achieving woman who needs to hear this message. Or, better yet, share it and tag me on social media. Visit my website, jamapantel. com, for more resources, updates and ways we can work together. Be sure to subscribe while you're on the website so you never miss anything. You've worked hard to get where you are Now. It's time to show up confidently and own your presence. Until next time, keep showing up and living the whole picture.

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